*Recovery Spotlight on Life Balance~ Part One* ~~*Meet My Friend Grace Peterson*

*WHEN WE BEGIN OUR RECOVERY JOURNEY, WE NEED TO LEARN THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING LIFE BALANCE, as part of our recovery program and treatment. We also have to work our FEELINGS as well.
I add FEELINGS, because for me in my Gambling Addiction I’d learned a bad behavior of *Escapism* in my addiction.

Meaning, I’d zone out everything, people and things around me.  For example, If I were at a casino, in front of a slot machine, I’d be so focused and zoned out that a person a couple of seats down could have a massive heart attack, fall to the ground, and I would be so focused on that slot machine, I would even get up to help!!
Our 1st reaction of any NORMAL  person would be to go over and start CPR, or help the person.

This is how sick and *cunning* my disease was. SO, here are 2 very good friends, with 2 very Wonderful Blogs and  Ways to help restore some of those Hobbies we enjoyed before our addiction took over our lives, and a fantastic way to learn about how *Omni-Science* can help you achieve a more conscious SELF….*PART ONE*

*MEET GRACE PETERSON* Her Gardening Blog: http://gracepete.blogspot.com

Gardening With Grace


Tuesday, July 2, 2013

It’s Like A Heatwave!

If YOU’VE WATCHED THE NEWS the last few days, you know that the western half of the U. S. is in the throes of a monstrous heat wave. It’s a little cooler right now because it’s 9:30 at night.
The thermometer in my shady pavilion. Argh!
Are you one of those gardeners who likes to try at least one (or ten) new plants each year? What am I saying? Of course you are. It’s one of the highlights of gardening, right? Anyway, one of this year’s newbies for me actually began when I saw it in bloom at a nursery a few years ago. It wasn’t for sale, just off in one corner looking pretty. I didn’t give it much thought at first but you know how something just plants (pun intended) itself in your head and won’t leave? Well this, my friends is what Impatiens glandulifera did for me. It’s a rare plant, at least in my world and I wasn’t even sure what it was called so how was I to investigate? But then last summer while I was at a park in Salem I spotted it growing!
Impatiens glandulifera or “Ornamental Jewelweed”  
I collected seed and tossed it in my purse and hoped I could get it to germinate. Meanwhile my four-hundred or so Impatiens balfouri plants continued to scatter their seed all over the garden. Nice, but you know how it is when you want what you don’t have. Human nature is such a silly thing.
Impatiens balfouri or “Poor Man’s Orchid” nice but I want more.

And I continued my infatuation with this lovely specimen from Fry Road Nursery.

Impatiens auricoma I think. Nice but not enough.
In April it became apparent that my collected seed was not going to germinate so I got on the horn which is code for Internet and started searching for seed, eventually finding a source and buying and waiting. Three packets of trial and error has netted me a total of seven plants. And below is a photo of the first bud just about to burst.
Look closely at the pre-born flowers.
Impatiens glandulifera can get quite tall, up to six and a half feet. I like tall plants. And now that the weather has warmed (understatement) the plants are growing at least a few inches every day. Below are a two photos.
There are naysayers out there who will probably scorn me for growing species Impatiens because “it’s a noxious weed” but that’s a bunch of hooey. I’m too anal and OCD to let plants get the upper hand in my garden. And besides, plants that I really, really like don’t grow like gang busters. They die. Or they die off. I grow Lythrum (Purple Loosestrife) and Buddleia (Butterfly Bush) but they aren’t escaping all over the place. But my neighbor’s bamboo has no problem crossing into my garden. Okay I’m stepping down from my soapbox now.  I just wanted to share my exciting Impatiens news.
Echinacea ‘Pow Wow Wildberry’ is another happy camper.
Another photo of my pink California poppies. The bees aren’t the only ones who love them.
Home Depot a few weeks ago I found this really cool Agastache. One gallon for $4.99. My camera doesn’t do it justice. The flowers are a deep red and gorgeous next to the catmint.
This spring, I bought Saponaria ‘Max Frei’ from Digging Dog Nursery. It’s blooming and lovely.
Although I’m not a fan of yellow,  I’m loving my Spigelia. Very cool blossoms.

In the foliage department, check out the leaves on my Artichoke plant.

A four-inch plant in April, look how big it’s gotten.
I also bought a Kale lacinato. It’s over three feet tall. So cool looking, don’t you think? That is, once I put down slug bait.
My Acanthus mollis looks better than ever. Too much shade for a bloom but who cares?
Digging Dog also offered Scutellaria suffrutescens ‘Texas Rose’, a plant I’ve wanted, like, for-ev-er! It’ just started blooming. I’m so NOT disappointed!
The entire plant is no more than a six-inch round ball but it’s so cool.
Finally I thought I’d share a photo of a visitor to the neighborhood. I photographed he and his brother from my car as I got home from work one evening. Fortunately they can’t venture into my backyard.
If you look closely you can see antler buds. Handsome fellow, isn’t he?
If you feel so inclined please visit my Pinterest page for lots of cool photos of species Impatiens. You might get hooked too. Then we really will have a noxious weed on our hands. But at least it will be pretty.
Stay cool everybody. Love to you all,

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On the Lighter Side

A HEARTY THANK YOU TO all of your for reading and commenting on the passing of “the mother” and my bumpy grieving process. Each and every comment warmed my heart. You’re such amazing, kind, compassionate people. You do a girl good. Thank you, a bazillion times!
In the wake of two very somber posts, I decided we needed to lighten things up this time around. I wasn’t sure what I was going to say until this morning when I saw this cartoon on my hubster’s page-a-day calendar.
How inventive is that? Come to think of it, I suppose this isn’t much lighter for all the men who might be reading this. Sorry guys.

Here’s hoping you have a splendid July 4th holiday. Smiles and hugs to you all.

*NOW YOU HAVE 2 LIFE RECOVERY HOBBIES YOU MAY WANT TO TRY YOUR HANDS AT??…..Gardening and Writing!! Everyone in recovery knows when we *SHARE* our Story with others, it is a very Powerful tool!!


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